Research shows that men would rather be respected than loved. Hard to believe?! As women, it can be hard to understand this perspective. But in any relationship, a turning-point is when you learn to open your eyes to see the other person’s perspective, and understand their needs. That’s why it can be such a game-changer once you learn what your husband needs from you, to feel loved.
The answer can be as simple as this: Show him respect.
He’ll eat it up.
His chest will fill with pride.
He’ll stand a little taller.
He’ll feel how much you need him.
And, chances are, he’ll keep doing more of those amazing things you praise him on!
Give it a try. The next time you want to say “I love you,” tell him, “I’m proud of you.” Talk about his successes and achievements in front of his friends. Tell him how impressed you are with his hard work. Tell him “thank you” for being able to rely on him. Throw these ideas into the mix, as occasional alternatives to the simple, “I love you.”
People tend to become how you treat them. Treat him like he’s amazing, and see what happens next!
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